Memory sharing for working data using rdma

A server system may include a cluster of multiple computers that are networked for high-speed data communications. Each of the computers has a remote direct memory access (RDMA) network interface to allow high-speed memory sharing between computers. A relational database engine of each computer is configured to utilize a hierarchy of memory for temporary storage of working data, including in order of decreasing access speed (a) local main memory, (b) remote memory accessed via RDMS, and (c) mass storage. The database engine uses the local main memory for working data, and additionally uses the RDMA accessible memory for working data when the local main memory becomes depleted. The server system may include a memory broker to which individual computers report their available or unused memory, and which leases shared memory to requesting computers.